What is Marriage? Is it made in Heaven? or, do we make it Heaven? These are the questions that keep coming up like waves, in the minds of many. Marriage is an absolute beautiful and an everlasting bondage of love, companionship, and an union of two minds.Maybe, getting our best partners, comes as a blessing to us from Heaven, but making it heavenly lies in our hands. Well, I have heard people say Marriage is a gamble, It's a Game and what not, but to win, we have to play it well and smart! The moves in this game are Acceptance, Trust, Honesty, Love, Respect,Responsibility, Commitment, Integrity, and so on..... Well, when the coins here are moved properly, marriage is definitely heaven.
There are people who are really scared about this whole concept.Yes, agreed this fear comes up to many people in many ways.The causes for this fear could be many, like a single incident, that has wrecked the person emotionally and the fear comes instantly and climbs up, an associated fear, which comes up by seeing people who have had bad experiences in marriage etc....
Actually, I did not have an idea to write about fears of marriage, but I was reading an article which talks about the impacts of such fears on daily life. The impacts are really alarming!This fear, directly affects one's health.Research study say that fears of Marriage or Gamaphobia keeps loved ones apart. It causes shortness of breath,rapid breathing, irregular heart breathe,sweating,overall fear of dread!People may have their fears in their own ways and may show different symptoms.There are ways to come out of this.
Fears are negative emotions that really effect us in our daily lives. I think we should always try to outgrow our fears by seeing the good side of things and having a positive attitude towards Life.Yes, many of you would say "Easy to Preach than to Practise." Well, it's worth giving it a try!
Meera signing off now...... stay tuned.
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